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Barry Finlay <baulddude>
"All that we are is the result of what we have thought"


My life is grrrrreat!!!

Living in Bonnybridge, been here for about 6 yrs now and its not too bad, mind you I have still never seen any aliens yet. Got married a couple of years ago to Leanne and we have just had our 1st baby. Baby Jack was born 1st September 2007 weighing 7lbd 9oz.

I work as a Scanning & Imaging Technician for an Orthotics company. I am also a self-employed freelance graphics & web designer, so if you need any design work done you know where to come ;)

If there is anything else you want to know, just ask!

I also make Bebo skins but I AM NOT DOING REQUESTS AT THIS TIME, so Dont' bother asking. I will be doing them again, when I have the time.

add this to ur page if you got and iPod
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Barry Finlay's URL
http://www.bebo.com/baulddude
Member Since
January 2006

Barry Finlay says:
"Thanks to everyone who came to Jacks party on Saturdau and thanks for the presents and money" (4 days ago) me too!

The Other Half Of Me
Baby Jack Finlay
My lillte baby Jack :D

My Sites
www.baulddudeskins.com - www.abuddhasleeps.com - www.twitter.com/baulddude - http://baulddude.stumbleupon.com
Films
Highlander, any film with Jason Statham in it (and no, im not gay), boondock saints, any good action, SCI-FI and horror films (recomendations welcome)
Music What I'm Listening at the momment
Glasvegas, still luvin Hans Zimmer, Cronix Aggression - http://www.chronixradio.com, cant wait for the new Metallica album
Happiest When
Im Happy all the time
Skinning Sites
www.beboskinz.com - www.bebo-best-skinz.webs.com - www.b3boskinz.webs.com - http://skinz4bebo.com/
Books
The Celectine Prophecy - James Redfield, The Tenth Insight - James Redfield, The Secret of Shambhala - James Redfield. Any book By Barbel Mohr. Ask and it is given - Ester & Jerry Hicks, The Power of deliberate intent - Ester & Jerry Hicks
Must See Documentery Films
The Secret. What the Bleep, Down the rabbit hole. Watch these and your life will never be the same again.

 

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Blogs

Friendship
I am reading the teachings of Buddha at the moment and came across a paragraph that I wanted to share with you. If everyone had a friend like this the world would be a better place.

" A true friend, the one with whom a man may safely associate, will always stick closely to the right way, will worry secretly about his friend's welfare, will console him in misfortune, will offer him a helping hand when he needs it, will keep his secrets, and will always give him good advice.

It is very difficult to find a friend like this, and, therefore, one should try very hard to be a friend like this. As the sun warms the fruitful earth, so a good friend shines in society because of his good deeds."

Can you think of friends you have like this?

2 Comments 23 days ago
How to Win Friends and Influence People
This is Dale Carnegie's summary of his book, from 1936

Part One: Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

1.Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
2.Give honest and sincere appreciation.
3.Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Part Two: Six ways to make people like you

1.Become genuinely interested in other people.
2.Smile.
3.Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
4.Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
5.Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
6.Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.

Part Three: Win people to your way of thinking

1.The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
2.Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."
3.If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
4.Begin in a friendly way.
5.Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
6.Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
7.Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
8.Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
9.Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
10.Appeal to the nobler motives.
11.Dramatize your ideas.
12.Throw down a challenge.

Part Four: Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment

A leader's job often includes changing your people's attitudes and behavior. Some suggestions to accomplish this:

1.Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
2.Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
3.Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
4.Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
5.Let the other person save face.
6.Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."
7.Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
8.Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
9.Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
0 Comments 26 days ago
New Skins
I am looking at making a few more new skins but I have drawn a blank as to what they should be. If anyone has any good ideas for skins (no personal ones) leave a comment or drop me a mail.

Thanks :)
0 Comments 27 days ago
 

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Typing Speed

Barry's typing speed is
51 wpm!
he is faster than 86.3% of Bebo.
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Playlist

Just Getting Started
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bullitt for pablo
4 Songs 2 Profiles Play  | Copy to my Profile
Opera
6 Songs 1 Profile Play  | Copy to my Profile
Chris Moyles
4 Songs 3 Profiles Play  | Copy to my Profile
Gwen "Finlay" Stefani
2 Songs 1 Profile Play  | Copy to my Profile
 
 

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My Skins

Kid Rock
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12 profiles
Gene Hunt V1
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14 profiles
Orange Alien
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4 profiles
Scottish Donald Duck
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4 profiles
Celtic
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1070 profiles
The A-Team
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311 profiles
Celtic - Aiden McGeady
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51 profiles
Coming to get you
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37 profiles
Rangers
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22 profiles
The General Lee
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13 profiles
 

Photos


My Skins
(26 photos)

Jacks 1st Birthday Party
(20 photos)

Jack - 5 Months
(11 photos)

Jack 4 Months
(4 photos)

Jack's 1st Christmas
(12 photos)

Jack - 6 Weeks to 3 months
(14 photos)

Baby Jack 0 - 5 Weeks
(38 photos)

My Wedding
(15 photos)

Family
(32 photos)

Mobile Photos
(20 photos)

Times gone by
(12 photos)

Little Captain
(6 photos)

My Niece's
(18 photos)

Photographic Timeline of ME!
(17 photos)

Random
(16 photos)

Pics from my old, old phone
(33 photos)

Other Peep's Pics
(26 photos)

The Beast (R.I.P.)
(3 photos)
 

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Comments

KieranYoung
okay m8 your skins r the best:D :P
heres some love
23 hours ago
Angie Campbell
me and clarkabell used to go years ago and it was really good - then somebody bought it and it got shit, and now i have nae idea what its like its been so long since i was in it for anything other than sitting in the bar having a quick pint whilst waiting on a taxi! However my new hoose is within a stones throw of it so i may venture there sometime :L
1 day ago
Angie Campbell
why?? Who have you got it in for - the pines or ferris??
1 day ago
KieranYoung
i think tht a good this skin would be gd for boys tht r single the skin should say this guy is single then an arrow pointing to his photo then saying any offers girlz !!!

and plz do this skin cuz all my m8s want it and so will every1 elsee probs;)
and heres some love:D
2 days ago
Michelle Clark
i had to put charlie's fire engine in the bucket, it died! :( :L . Jack's one is still upstairs tho with all his balls in it an charlie's balls are in a bag in the cupboard so ya may as well take them too (that sentence is sooo wrong! Lol ). An karen's dad took all his chairs back yesterday, only chairs i got are 2 kitchen ones! Could prob get a len o chairs from next door tho, want me to ask?
1 week ago via Mobile
Michelle Clark
yeah, we sorted things, i've got kid tonight an he'll keep him tomorro after the party. An yeah, i'll be havin a wee drink. Def no gettin drunk tho
1 week ago via Mobile
Mandy D
hi we totally love the new comp and garys been waiting till anna goes to bed before he goes on it? next week will be a different story coz he's on hols, he will turn night into day eh? im going to sort out my bebo when i get time??? hows your visitors? and its meant to rain on sat boohoo xxx
1 week ago
Michelle Clark
aye i jus checked wi him, he's takin wean fri sat night but gonna bring him back sat morn for the party. Then take him back at night. I'm still undecided as whether or no to drink but ya know me..... Ahaha
1 week ago via Mobile
Michelle Clark
oh but its a whole new ball game if you're buyin...... Muhaha. Dunno, he's got the kid fri an sat night so should prob make the most o it. Hmmm decisions decisions
1 week ago via Mobile
Michelle Clark
lookin forward to young man's partay? I'm aff the swally so will be stayin sober me's think's :O
1 week ago via Mobile
Debbie Harkness
Used the kid rock skin for the group :D
cheers
x
1 week ago
James Grieve
cheers bud that would be quality :D
1 week ago
Claire H
hey ive been waiting for my josh holloway skin!!! c'mon where is he!! lol
1 week ago
James Grieve
alright mate any chance you could make a cool aberdeen skin cheers
2 weeks ago
Mark Govan
Mr Finlay, how you doing sir?

I'm just dodging away.

You're right, defo been years since I seen you. I think the last time I saw you wre bouncing at that place in Polmont, forget its name. That was ages ago!!!

Cheers. MG.
2 weeks ago
Angie Campbell
Get one of those photo cakes fae asda. U just gie them a photo of jack and they put it on a cake. Only 9quid 4 the normal one or 15 for a large
2 weeks ago via Mobile
Varry Lavin
ok, i just bought a new fone today so am between sims, i'll get it to you today once i sort oot how to work the damn thing. you wont be disappointed I just hope she can sort you out. i'll send it privately soon.
2 weeks ago
Varry Lavin
My pal runs her own cake business - very reasonable and she can do any design you like - she is very talented! If you want I can get you her number on Monday - I hope she could fit you in......the kids ones she's done have been excellent.......& tasty. Let me know.
2 weeks ago
.Ultimate Undertaker Fan.
Yeah well, he lost a match, cause the GM of smackdown said if taker looses to Edge, he will be banished from the WWE, and so edge won, taker got banished lol, and edge cheated on vickie he is the GM, and she has reinstated the undertaker ;)
i want him back as the "ministry of darkness" undertaker :P
if you get me lol ;)
2 weeks ago
.Ultimate Undertaker Fan.
Awesome lol, and yeah he said he might put in a whole new WWE section ;)
lol..
you should watch wrestling again :D
wwe is getting better than it was before, undertaker's return on sunday at summerslam :P
that's gonna be big lol.. and hopefully admin get's the site done up quicker, so then more skins will come in lol.
did u like judas mesias when he was in TNA?.
2 weeks ago
 
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